Have you ever wondered what BDSM is?
Have you seen, or heard about 50 Shades of Grey?
Have you wanted to try it, but don’t know where to start?
Have you been in the lifestyle and your relationship isn’t what it use to be?

If you answered yes, to any of those questions. I made this blog to help people like you. This blog was made to help educate and inform those who are interested in, curious about or are already in the lifestyle.


I am Master Locke,

I am a BDSM life and relationship coach. With over a decade of experience in living the lifestyle and learning from my own previous mentors. I am here to help you become the Dominant or submissive you want to be.

There is no easy way or quick fix for anything in life nor is there one for the lifestyle. Yet, there is hope. For everyone, from the beginners and novices. To those who have been in the lifestyle for what seems like forever

My story starts unlike any other. From the depths of depression and the naive mindset of a closed minded eighteen-year-old. I decided I would be submissive to a woman. Only to find out that she was a switch and I was more dominant than submissive.

To being, in the lifestyle for four years and researching as much as I could. Until I found a local mentor. Then being mentored for two years and trying things on my own.

This is why I made this blog. To help people like you. To enjoy life to it’s fullest and to grow as an individual. If those things sound like something that interests you. This is the blog for you.